Monday, November 25, 2013

New Ulm, Texas with the Turner's

This is an email that was sent to Sister Carling's mom from the Sister whose home they are staying in.  It gives a bit more info than what Sister Carling shared in her email. 

Helen,
We are delighted to have the Sisters here. We also had a senior couple here for 6 months, earlier this year. We added on to our home and built a room for my parents a few years ago. It is one large room with a kitchen area and bathroom and a separate entrance. The Sisters also have access to anything they need in my kitchen.  My husband's studio is above their room. Ken is Branch Mission leader, we have lived here almost 25 years so we know the area and the people. We have 7 children, our youngest is 27, 10 grandchildren and a bunch of chickens.

The Sisters have a lot of support in the Branch, the members love them. It is about 1800 square miles and includes all or part of 3 counties. If you look at a map of Texas we are west of Houston, the Branch boundaries are from Brookshire on the east to Schulenberg on the west, it takes in Sheridan, Wallis and Fulshear on the south, on the north, Bellville, Industry and New Ulm on the north, it also includes Sealy, Eagle Lake and Columbus. It is a challenge for the Sisters to to not go over on their miles but they are learning to manage them well. Sister Sheldon is a great trainer and they said they have a lot in common and they are really having fun together. They are working very hard, there is a lot of work to do here both with investigators and less actives.  They are are teaching a family history class in Columbus. They stay really busy following the mission schedule and working with the people here.They come in and visit with us often in the evenings after they finish planning.

Hope you have a great Thanksgiving, we will do our best to help them to not be too homesick. They are going to help us decorate for Christmas this weekend while the grandchildren are here.

Sister Carling says to tell you she loves you and misses you and that she is doing better, but she seems fine. If you have any other questions let me know.

Nell



In the Middle of No Where -- Next to Nothing

Here I am ya'll! I'm in Texas!!
We arrived last Wednesday afternoon where our Mission President and his wife and his assistants greeted all of us off the airplane. We did have 2 other missionaries who flew in on different flights. One from Mexico MTC and one who was waiting on his visa to come to the US from France. 13 in all! There are now even numbers of Elders and Sisters in the mission. Almost all the wards have a set of Elders and a set of Sisters (my tiny branch being one of them).

So the title of this might make you curious...well...I litterally am in the middle of no where...next to nothing. My companion, Sister Sheldon, has been out 6 months since I arrived in the field. 3 of those months have consisted in living in the tiny little branch of Sealy. The Sealy branch streches from the outskirts of Katy, TX to the other small town of Weimer, TX. it takes about 1.5 hours to get from one side of my area to the other. I live somewhere in the north east part of that area in a place called New Ulm. In the TINY town of New Ulm, we have no place to buy groceries (Dad...we have a full blown post office!! but they don't have an elementary school...). Every day we travel to a different town to visit investigators or to visit members or less-active members of the church. This can make things a little difficult when planning to travel.we try to hit a town a day. It can kinda be confusing. This makes planning so KEY in everything we do.
The past few days have been pretty windy...they've also been pretty wet. That combination makes things pretty miserable...okay REALLY MISERABLE. Other than the weather everything's been pretty great!
Saturday we made visits in a town called Belleville. While there, we made visits. There were plenty of visits that ended out being us standing on a porch for a few minutes. COLD!! and by the end of the day I was tired. We both decided to visit this one part member family. Michele (who is not a member) answered the door and let us in. Her husband and 2 little boys wern't there and she had been taking a break and started a movie. As we got to talking with her, she opened up to how she had started to feel about God and His role in her life. She believed in God. No doubt about it but she had lost most her faith through her son's battle with cancer. He is now 5 years old and still has a year of chimo left. She lost a lot of her faith. She was tested and tried and doubted alot of her beliefs. We continued to talk to her about this and asked her to pray. She got very misty eyed and told us she was scared. She was scared what God would do. We assured her that all would be well. he would be there for her to help her as long as she let Him help her. We challenged her to pray and to read Romans 8. She said she would. We will check up on her sometime next week.

Well...I don't have much time left. I love ya'll.
Yes...I am picking up this accent. No doubt about that one.
Thanksgiving is all taken care of. We have about 5 families who would like us to come over, but because of distance...we will probably be able to make it to 3. We will be pretty full by the end of the day. Pray that we can make it through the day!!

Much love,
--Sister Carling
PS -- Due to the amount of mail going through the mission office (and the fact that it's 90 miles away), they have asked us to please send mail to our living areas. For all those who would like to write me, please write me at this new address (it will chage as transfers come an go)
Sister NaTosha Carling
741 Walnut St
New Ulm, TX 78950

 

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Arrived in Houston

Arrival at the Houston Airport
Tosha with President and Sister Pingree
New arrivals with Mission President & his wife

Tosha with new companion Sis. Sheldon






The only picture that worked...

Our Zone at the MTC

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Farewell Snow-capped Mountains!

Family, Friends, anyone else reading this email,

This week has comprised of utter immersion in the gospel of Jesus Christ. It really is like drinking from a fire hose. This gospel is amazing, it is beautiful, it is true. I have witnessed so many miracles and partaken of so much revelation. God TRULY wants us to be happy.

As most of you know, I depart the MTC tomorrow . As I sit and reflect, I realize how much I really didn't know 2 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago, I was a girl getting ready to go on a mission. 2 weeks ago, I got on a plane all puffy-eyed to fly up to Utah. 2 weeks ago, I changed my life.

As I have been at the MTC, I've experienced change. This change didn't happen over-night...in fact, this change is still happening to me. I have witnessed miracles in others, but more importantly in myself.

I always viewed missionaries as those dorky people going door to door...yes, we may be that but a missionary's whole purpose in going on a mission is to bring them closer to Christ. IT'S NOT ABOUT ME. A missionary's purpose is to build faith in others through Jesus Christ and HIS atonement. A missionary's purpose is to bring others to repentance, then baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and finally, enduring to the end where we may receive eternal life. Our main goal in this life is baptism. God want's us to make covenants and promises to Him so that He will be able to bless us. He promises us Eternal life, being redeemed of God, and He will pour His Spirit upon us.

Christ looks at us with love. He does everything for us...NOT for His own good and gain. Even if there was only one person who had to live...He still would have given His life for us. He does everything out of love and because of this love, He suffered the pains in the garden of Gethsemane and he suffered on Calvary JUST FOR US!! So that through Him, we might live! Christ, your elder brother, sacrificed His life...for you!

The least I could do is to give up 1.7% of my life (that is...if I live to 80). we must all learn to be kind, be patient, be loving, be accepting, be charitable. Work as hard as you possibly can to follow his example and become like Him. 

Sister Mary Ellen Edmunds spoke to us on Sunday. She said a few things that I really liked. here they are:

  • Your mission has not been served...it's yours.
  • Everything should be based on love--Jesus did not boast..
  • You don't do something if you don't think about it first.
  • Don't let things that don't matter BUG YOU!
  • All I can do is the best I could do.
  • when you do the best you can do, heaven comes to help you the rest of the way.
  • Loose your life to God and find eternal life.
  • Be of good cheer...it is not a suggestion, it is a commandment!
  • If you want to be happy, then be happy!! Mormon 9:14
  • Wickedness never was happiness....righteousness never was misery. Alma 41:10
  • John 13:35 -- including love for those who don't treat you very well.
  • If your motive is love, it is hard for others to just turn away.
  • it's not what you say....it's how you feel. 
  • Thank Him for the blessings you're not aware of.
This woman is such an amazing and happy woman. I aspire to become like her. (and yes mom...i did get a hug from her.)

Mission's are forever. I need to remember this whenever things get hard or I lack confidence. I must have no regrets. Elder Holland, in a previously recorded talk, said this as Christ, and then as our response:

"Come to the edge."
"No, we'll fall."
"Come to the edge!"
"No! we'll fall!"
"COME TO THE EDGE!!"
So, we came to the edge...
He pushed us and we flew.

This is one of those times where I am learning to fly. As I fly, I am taking in the beauty all around me. This gospel is a beautiful thing. I know it, I live it, I love it.

I love you all.

--Sister Carling

Thursday, November 14, 2013

The MTC, TRC, and Other Mormon Words

Dear Family and Friends,

So people tell you and tell you how amazing the MTC is...You don't really know or have any idea how truly amazing it is UNTIL you experience it. I mean it is pretty fantastic.

We have 8 sisters and 3 brothers flying out to Houston on the 20th...Lexi's birthday!! :) Houston is going to receive 11 new missionaries!! :)

The first three days of the MTC are crazy. They will be the most exhausting days of your life (at least that's how it feels). we got here and we met the MTC president and his wife and then immediately after that we went to class. after we went to class we ate and went straight back to class. this happened pretty much every day last week. My body was NOT happy with me on Sunday, but after a trip to the bathroom, I've felt great ever since! We also have gym time. That has helped me to feel better too!!

My companion, Sister Holly Fullmer, is probably the best first companion. (I'll send you pictures when I figure out how to use these pretty restrictive computers). She is from Genola, UT, about 20-30 minutes south of Provo. She has some CURLY hair. We're both wondering what will happen when we get to Texas. MIGHT get a little crazy.

We taught our first investigator on Saturday. He ended out not being "home" and we had to go "tracting". (our teacher was out of town running a ragnar.) TALK ABOUT CRAZY. it was kinda scary to plan this whole lesson and have him not be there. but for a first time teaching...it went pretty well. we can always do better but it was great.

Sunday's and Tuesday's are way awesome here. We had sister Cheryl Espain, 2nd counselor in the primary pres, come and speak to us in relief society. we were on like the 3rd row in the very center. she talked about having faith in Jesus Christ: obey Him, trust Him, and want to change to be like Him.

Our branch president, Pres Wenn, was described to us as a spiritual giant. he was also said to be 5'0". the first time I saw him...i almost laughed out loud. He is seriously one of the most in tune men i know. He told us on Sunday that "The mission isn't for you...it's for those we serve and teach. it's for our Father in Heaven, it's for our families, it's for those we haven't met, it's for those we will teach, it's for our future families. The mission isn't for you. You will be a RM longer than you are a Missionary."

That night we had Brother Richard Heaton, the MTC admin. direct., talk about the Law of Chastity (LoC). it was so amazing. in these devo's, speakers are allowed to speak freely on however they feel to get the point across.  he talked about how we should teach about the sacredness of the LoC...not just to teach the LoC. We also got a definition of the word sacred: a piece of heaven untarnished by the world. It's such a beautiful thing. I also saw Sister Mattie Ray. THAT was way awesome!! :)

Monday we taught "Frank". He is a devout Catholic who is in his 50's. (Monday was such a blur. i have no idea what happened or if anything significant happened that day) OH we also had TRC, there is so many details about these investigators that I can't even tell you how amazing this is. We've taught at least 2 times a day this week. we are teaching Whitney. She has had quite the past. Yesterday we FINALLY got her to pray. IT.WAS.AMAZING. I wish I had time to tell you. Here are the bigger details of this week.

On Tuesday I learned that if you don't laugh...you cry...and I've cried a lot the past week or so. whether it's the spirit of the emotional tank running over. We also had a devotional that night. ELDER L TOM PERRY CAME AND SPOKE TO US!! When he walked into the room, you knew it. i was in the missionary choir and it was amazing to be able to sing to him. We sang "Redeemer of Israel" . He talked to us about companions. It's applicable to both missionaries and relationships everywhere. One thing he mentioned is to be close you your companion. to love them. Love them so you don't get sick. This is both spiritually and physically.

Today is p-day. earlier this week the girls decided that "Sleep is for the weak!!" You have no idea how hard it is to be strong!! haha. It takes a lot of strength to stay awake. We have got laundry done and in a couple hours we will go to the temple!! I am so excited for that. :) Later tonight, before class, we will go and teach our TRC investigator again. I am so excited to be able to teach her. She is so ready for the gospel.

Well that about wraps up my week. I wish I had time to divulge all of the amazing and special experiences i have had. I love you all SO MUCH!! Thank you for the letters and continual support.

Talk to all ya'll in Texas!! :)

--Sister Carling

PS - I'm not quite sure how the photos work...it's being difficult.

PPS - I wish I could do something about the elder and sister who didn't get anything the past week....not really even an email. Sister Talea Sievert is going to Houston with us on the 20th. She's from Tucson and knows my cousin, Sister Mattie Ray. Elder Phillip Woodland is going to Tallahassee Fl on the 19th. He's from Cali and I feel like I really misjudged him the first few days. We are all in Unit 185. I didn't know if there was anything ya'll could do in the next couple of days. It would be great if they could receive some support just as I have. I love you. I just know that my companion and I get the most letters out of anyone and they are so supportive and loving. It's kinda heart breaking thinking about how these other brothers and sisters don't get the same. If you could dearelder.com them that would be amazing.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Meeting friends at the MTC!

Tosha w/ companion, Sister Fullmer.  Brennan Brown and 
his companion, Elder Stoetzling.  Tosha and Brennan grew up across the 
street from each other during elementary school!!  
They entered the MTC on the same day just a few minutes apart.

Tosha's first "snail mail" letter dated 11/7/13


Family!
I love you all so much!  It has been busy, busy busy!! I feel like I have been awake for like 2 days today, but I also have been able to learn so much!  Before I came to the MTC I got to visit Josh and briefly visit Ryan.  I was so happy I got to see him, even if it was only for a couple of minutes.

I got to the MTC a bit early (12:25ish) where I got my tag, books & dropped of my bags.  We then went straight to the classroom where we met our instructors.  I also me my companion, Sister Fullmer.  All Four of the sisters in my District (and 3/4 of the elders) are going to the Houston Mission!  It is so exciting!!  Sister Fullmer is from Genola, UT only 20 minutes south of the MTC.  She is AMAZING!!  I love her so much.  She is the 2nd oldest of 8.  7 girls & 1 boy (the youngest).  She is from a small ranching community so she is a country girl.  Did I mention that she has amazingly curly hair?  Well, she does and it is totally opposite from me.  We get along so well and she will definitely be a great friend after I get home.  I feel like I've know her for years.

The MTC has been great.  I have learned so much and I've only been here for a day & a half.  We teach our first investigator "Frank" on Saturday.  We will be teaching him about the restoration.  We will stat teaching our Main investigator "Jim" on Tuesday and every day until Saturday.  He is so ready to hear about the Plan of Salvation.  He is so family oriented.

Well, I love you all!! Thank you for the support!

Love,
Sister Carling

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Tosha's first email home

Mom,
I love you too. life has been pretty crazy here and p-day isn't till next Thursday. BUT I was allowed to write home to tell them all was well.  
 
We got our travel plans and our flight is on Nov 20th at 9:40AM. We meet to leave for the airport at around 4:30ish AM. Talk about crazy. THAT will be a long day.

Every day here feels like 3 and it's been a short while that I've been here. I love you and can't wait to hear from you. 

Well I need to go to lunch!! God is amazing, life is crazy!!

Much love,
Sister Carling

PS-they get mail right after lunch.
 

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Arriving at the MTC!!

Arriving at the MTC.  Excited and ready to begin the new adventure!!

Time with the Fabers before the MTC

Eating at Cafe Rio before heading to the MTC!!

Heather, Justin, Gabe, Josh, Tosha and Hyrum

Time with the BYU Faber boys before the MTC

 Joshua Faber w/ Tosha--Gabe the photo bomb

 Ryan Faber w/ Tosha

Before going to the MTC she was also able to visit with the older Faber boys who are attending BYU.

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Arriving at the Fabers

 
 Sam, Gabe and Heather Faber w/ Tosha

Sam Faber w/ Tosha--he's so excited for the pic!!

Tosha flew to SLC on Tuesday night and stayed with Uncle Tony and Aunt Anne Faber and family.

At the Phoenix Airport

 Arriving at the airport

 Heading to Security

 At security gate--one final wave

 Exiting terminal heading to plane

 On the Ramp--third person from front.  See's family on top of parking garage and waves!!
Sitting in seat 3F window seat--third window

Monday, November 4, 2013

Setting Apart as a Sister Missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

Tonight I was set apart as a Sister Missionary.  President Leavitt (my Stake President), Bishop Leavitt (yes, they are brothers), my father and my Grandpa Haws participated.

 Grandma and Grandpa Haws

Bishop Leavitt 

Friend Darla Wheeler 

My Family 

Siblings--we NEVER fight!! Ha ha! 

 Sisters, sisters, there were never such devoted sisters....

Best Friends, Kandace and Camille.  Marin participated via Skype from BYU-I!!

Surprise!!

 Jonathon Faber and Tosha

Jonathon Faber w/ his companion and Tosha

Tosha was able to cut cousin Jonathon Faber's Hair on Monday before leaving for her mission.  Jonathon is serving in the Gilbert, AZ mission and is stationed in a ward where another family cousin lives so we arranged for her to surprise him with a haircut on P-day.